Showing posts with label narcissism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label narcissism. Show all posts

Dec 9, 2022

David Sacks on how a narcissistic fraudster plays to his audience

I just think that these types of guys - you can call it a narcissistic fraudster - they think they can talk their way out of anything.  The average person is not really used to dealing with one of these personality types...  They clearly are smart and articulate and they know what to say and they're crafting their words.  What they've learned in their life is that if they use the precise magic words with the person, they can pretty much convince them of anything, get them to do anything.  And in particular, I would say that investors tend to fall for this, not because investors are dumb, but because investors are so clear about what they're looking for and what they want.  They're predictable.  VCs, especially, we're looking for the 100x outcome.  It's easy for this type of personality to construct a story to essentially stroke the erogenous zones of a VC and sort of trick them.  And so there is probably a positive reinforcement loop that gets created in the minds of one of these people and they start to think that they can basically talk their way out of any situation.

~ David O. Sacks, "There's Something Huge They're Not Telling Us About FTX," 4:10 mark, December 4, 2022





Dec 2, 2022

Derek Van Shaik on the psychological drivers of Sam Bankman-Fried

Many automatically assume crooked rich people want to get rich to be flashy, driving Lamborghinis and be covered in diamonds.  However, there's psychologically more to wealth than merely just the physical objects, such as the associated power of having wealth.  Since the crooked rich usually feel insecure, they are attracted to the power money brings to make themselves feel less insecure.

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For Sam to think he would never get caught and he can outrade everyone stems from hubris and arrogance, which is his elevated sense of self worth.  However, if you look at his body language and behavior, he's quite insecure, constantly looking down in conversation, nervous jitters that test the structural rigidity of chairs, self-comforting hand holds and what appears to be constant nervous stuping smirks...  If you're thinking, "How could Sam be both insecure and arrogant?," it's the opposite side of the same coin.  Extremely arrogant people are extremely insecure.  Their arrogance is a coping mechanism to feel less insecure.  The most secure people are those who can admit when they're wrong, willing to learn and don't feel that they're unbeatable.

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Is Sam a narcissist sociopath?  Possibly, to have that much arrogance, insecurity and apparent disregard for other people.  Sam talks a lot about giving his money away to charity, however constantly speaking of charity is common of a naricissistic sociopath because they are using charity to gain fame, publicity, the appearance of altruism and to hide the truth of who they really are, all the while getting tax breaks.

~ Derek Van Shaik, "How Sam Bankman-Fried LIED Non-Stop to Steal Billions,"  YouTube, 2:30, 5:25, 8:00 mark,