Jan 9, 2023

Rolf Dobelli on the challenge of youth

Our sample sizes are too small, our decisions rushed - or, in the language of statisticians, not representative.  We rely on a false impression of reality, believing that with a few random spot tests we can find the man or woman of our dreams, our ideal job, the best place to live.  Sure, it might work out - if so, then I'm thrilled for you - but if it does, it will only be by a stroke of good fortune, and nobody should pin their hopes on that.

The world is much bigger, richer and more diverse than we imagine, so try to take as many samples as you can while you're still young.  Your first years of adulthood aren't about earning money or building a career.  They're about getting acquainted with the universe of possibility.  Be extremely receptive.  Taste whatever fate dishes up.  Read widely, because novels and short stories are excellent simulations of life.  Only as you age should you adapt your modus operandi and become highly selective.  By then you'll know what you like and what you don't.

~ Rolf Dobelli, The Art of the Good Life, "The Secretary Problem," pp. 192-193



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